The Venus Fly Trap Podcast

Hosted by Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards and co-hosted by Emme Erl, The Venus Fly Trap Podcast explores toxic relationships, emotional trauma, healing, personal growth, and human connection through raw conversations and real-life experiences.

Blending psychology, spirituality, humor, and honest storytelling, each episode uncovers the hidden patterns that shape our relationships — and how healing can lead to transformation.

If you’ve struggled with love, attachment, heartbreak, or rediscovering yourself, this podcast is for you.

Podcaster's Rave Review

“Stephen is a great guest—very calm and focused! He shared insights that will transform your mind and relationships.”

—Anthony Guastella Anthony Guastella Wellness

“It's not every day that you get the chance to speak with someone as courageous and as humble as Stephen Paul Edwards. Our conversation started by exploring his book - Venus Fly Trap - and very quickly moved deeper into the realms of vulnerability, overcoming shame and rebuilding his life after an addictive relationship with someone he deeply loved, but could also see was bringing him down. A raw conversation about life and how to have the courage to change the course they are taking.”

—Einav Avni Healing conversation

"Dr. Stephen Edwards' story is a journey of unexpected twists and turns. He left me asking myself repeatedly, "Why didn't you just leave?" The way he intertwines the ups and downs of his story is a masterclass in storytelling. He was a great guest and I highly recommend him to other shows."

—Deston Rogers Founder/Host, Eagle Freedom Presents

EP1: The Venus Fly Trap

Host: Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards

In the very first episode of The Venus Fly Trap Podcast, Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards an author and transformational speaker, uncovers the shocking true story behind his book, The Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies & Repercussions.

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EP2: The Hidden Power of Toxic Relationships

Host: Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards

In this powerful episode of The Venus Fly Trap Podcast, Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards explores the deep emotional and psychological layers of toxic relationships, trauma, addiction to unhealthy attraction, childhood wounds, and self-destruction, while also revealing how these painful patterns repeat, why people ignore red flags, and how vulnerability, self-awareness, and emotional healing can transform suffering into growth and personal reclamation.

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Podcaster's Rave Review

“Guest Stephen Edwards was a thoughtful and engaging voice on Date The Right 1 on NEW Streaming Network. He shared meaningful insights on personal ownership, self-awareness, and recognizing relationship patterns that truly resonated with the audience. His reflections on vulnerability, accountability, and reclaiming authenticity added depth and heart to the discussion. It was a genuine, unhurried conversation that felt both impactful and inspiring.”

—Cece Shatz Date the Right one

'Having Stephen Paul Edwards on the podcast felt easy in the best way. No guarding, no pretending, no trying to sound impressive. Just two men having an honest conversation about the things that actually shape a life. Stephen spoke openly about relationships, masculinity, failure, growth, and the responsibility that comes with self-awareness. He didn’t hide behind concepts or theory. He owned his patterns, his blind spots, and the lessons that only come from getting it wrong and choosing to look at yourself instead of blaming others. What I respected most was his depth and presence. He listens. He reflects. He speaks from lived experience, not ego. There’s a steadiness to him that makes hard topics feel safe to explore, and that’s rare. This conversation will land with men who are ready to be honest with themselves. I’m grateful for Stephen’s openness and the trust he brought into the space. He’s someone you want more of in these conversations, not less.”

—Chris Chandler-Yates Motivated Masculine Men Podcast

Dr Edwards was a fantastic guest on the Own Your Essence Podcast. He is engaging, easy to talk with, and brings both energy and depth to every conversation. His ability to connect personal stories with universal themes like trust, fear, and growth made for a compelling and meaningful episode. We truly appreciated the openness and wisdom he shared with our audience.

—April DeMille Own Your Essence Podcast

EP3: The Dark Night of the Soul

Host: Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards

In this deeply personal and emotionally intense episode of The Venus Flytrap Podcast, Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards has a raw conversation about toxic relationships, emotional pain, mental health, trauma, and self-discovery, exploring how unresolved wounds shape who we love, why people stay trapped in harmful cycles, and how awareness, vulnerability, and acceptance can become the foundation for healing and transformation.

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EP4: Why People Stay in Toxic Relationships

Host: Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards

In this powerful episode of The Venus Flytrap Podcast, they discuss toxic relationships, emotional dependency, self-worth, and why people stay stuck in harmful patterns, while exploring how trauma, fear, and low self-esteem shape attachment and how healing begins through self-awareness, self-ownership, and breaking cycles of emotional chaos.

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Podcaster's Rave Review

I just wanted to share my heartfelt thanks for your time, wisdom and the meaningful conversation we had on your HT Podcast episode. It's an honour to amplify your voice and share your message with our listeners. Your insights will undoubtedly support many on their healing and growth journeys.

—Rania E. The Healing Train Podcast

I found Stephen, to be very open about his personal experiences and appreciated how articulate and frank he was in sharing his story and what he learnt, I'm sure my audience will benefit hugely from his insights.

—Lyn Smith HEARTS Entwined Podcast

Thank you so much for joining me on Dare to Be Us! 🎙️ Your story is powerful, authentic, and inspiring, and I'm honored we got to share it with our community.

—Ruth Dare to Be Us

EP5: The Red Flags We Ignore: How Toxic Relationships Reveal the Wounds We Need to Heal

Host: Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards

In this powerful episode of The Venus Fly Trap Podcast, Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards explores the deeper roots of toxic relationships and why so many people find themselves repeating the same painful patterns over and over again.

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EP6: COMING SOON...

Host: Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards

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Podcaster's Rave Review

I really enjoyed meeting you yesterday. The first part of the podcast was incredible! In anway, I made a friend yesterday. You have a great energy about you!

—Aleks U Mind Triumph Podcast

Dr. Stephen Edwards was an absolute treasure to speak with. From the moment the conversation started, it felt less like a formal interview and more like sitting around the table with friends sharing honest conversations over a glass of wine. The atmosphere was relaxed, insightful, vulnerable, and genuinely enjoyable. What stood out most was Dr. Edwards' willingness to openly discuss the toxic relationship he experienced and the lessons he learned from it. It was incredibly refreshing to hear a male perspective delivered with such honesty, emotional depth, and vulnerability. He allowed his emotions to come through naturally, both in conversation and through the pages of his book, which made the entire experience feel deeply authentic. The Venus Fly Trap was an incredible read. One of my favorite things about it was how clearly Dr. Edwards' voice comes through to the reader—it truly feels like he is speaking directly to you throughout the story. The book is raw, emotional, thought-provoking, and yes... definitely spicy in all the best ways. We would absolutely welcome Dr. Edwards back for another conversation anytime. Honestly, by the end of the interview, it felt like we had made a new friend, and we genuinely look forward to hopefully meeting him in person someday. And now that Book 2 has been released, I cannot wait to dive into it. Highly recommend both the conversation and the books.

—Shannon Lamkin Travel Time Stories Podcast

Working with the VFT23 team was an outstanding experience from start to finish. I'm incredibly grateful for the opportunity to collaborate with such a professional, flexible, and genuinely supportive group of people. From the initial conversations and email exchanges to coordinating schedules and bringing the production to life, the entire team demonstrated exceptional communication, rapport, and teamwork throughout the process. Each person that I interacted with made the experience seamless, welcoming, and enjoyable, and I truly appreciated the grace and flexibility they extended while working around my schedule. Special shoutout to Raycah for always being so kind and helpful. In all of my dialogue with the team, it never felt transactional — it felt collaborative, human, and mission-driven. The opportunity to sit down with Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards was equally impactful. Dr. Edwards brought an incredible level of vulnerability, honesty, wisdom, and strength to the conversation. What stood out most was his ability to reframe adversity — emphasizing the idea that life does not simply happen to us, but can also happen for us through the lessons, growth, and perspective gained along the way. Through personal stories, hard-earned lessons, and authentic reflection, he created a conversation that was deeply relatable and grounded in humanity rather than perfection. What made the experience especially meaningful was Dr. Edwards's willingness to openly discuss his own struggles, mistakes, and personal growth rather than speaking from a place of superiority or detached expertise. That level of authenticity allows people to feel less alone. It transforms pain into purpose and turns personal messes into messages that can genuinely help others heal, grow, and keep moving forward. I'm truly thankful to both Dr. Edwards and the VFT23 team for helping create a conversation rooted in resilience, compassion, humility, and hope. I will certainly be recommending other podcasters to reach out to you all if they want to collaborate with a stellar team 🙏 Thank you Team VFT23! Much love and blessings to you all. Gratefully, Cam

—Cam Campbell Real Resilience Talk Podcast

Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards